Girls think that they have to have a 20 inch waist and double D boobs to be attractive. Guys think they need to be ultra muscular, tall, & 2% body fat to be attractive. But attraction is NOT one-size-fits-all. Everyone has good & bad features. I have a nice figure but I break out easily. And also, not everyone agrees on what is attractive. My best friend loves the beefy football player look. I prefer skinny guys. Some guys like curvy girls, some like the sleek & slender look. No one will look attractive to EVERYONE! (Ex: I never thought Orlando Bloom was that attractive) So if you don't fit the stereotype for what society tells you is attractive or some guy/girl you like thinks they're too good for you looks-wise, fuck them! (figuratively, NOT literally under ANY circumstances, unless you want your heart broken) The perfect person for you WILL find you attractive so don't listen to the haters!
So I came up with a challenge for everyone who reads this :find something about you that you like about yourself physically. Try to avoid picking something other than boobs/skinniness/butt if you're a girl and something other than muscles if you're a guy (don't get me wrong, DO LOVE those parts of you & if you've got it, be PROUD of it! but also acknowledge that there's even MORE to love about yourself <3)
I know I talked about boobs in the beginning to get your attention but I chose my calf muscles and my feet. I have small, tiny cute feet that aren't calloused & when I point them, my calf muscle looks good : )
Everyone has SOMETHING like that; that little seemingly insignificant detail that makes them SEXY!!!!! (I like boys that have attached earlobes! Go figure that one!) So be proud! Love your body! heck, post what your favorite part is in the comment section if you want!
So I gotta go to bed soon because I have a doctors appointment early in the morning. but the time isn't the worst part. IT'S THE FASTING!!!!! : ( I'm a diabetic & my numbers are MUCH LESS than desirable (i check 6 times a day & watch what I eat so if anyone know any tips to help get my blood sugar under control, PLEASE let me know) : / I have to get blood work done multiple times a year. I don't mind that but at least once a year, I get blood work done that requires fasting. I HATE HATE HATE being hungry but I'm not allowed to eat for at least 12 hours. : ( I should probably count myself lucky because some medical procedures require 24 hours of fasting (my mom has had to do that before : ( ) but i'll probably be getting those procedures done one day too so........
but anyway, I'm going to go to sleep so I don't have to think about the hunger. I stuffed myself earlier but I'm starting to get a little bit hungry already. I feel like I should say SOMETHING else cuz this is sort of a downer after the whole LOVE YOUR BODY thing but I don't really have much else to say. You're beautiful/handsome/sexy/whatever-u-wanna-be & if someone tells you otherwise, remember that they don't matter cuz if YOU love you, then who else matters? :)
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ReplyDeleteI havnt seen your boobs but i assume they are great too :D
ReplyDeleteRemoved last one due to spelling mistakes :P
Awesome blog Mindy, now do your thing:
ReplyDeletetits or gtfo <3
amen!!! you hit the nail right on the head!
ReplyDeletebut I dont love myself D=
ReplyDeleteMy favourite part of my body is my hair. Or maybe my abs. Or my height. Hey, I just really love myself lol.
ReplyDeleteAnyway, I'll check back often for more intimate details lol :P
Good to know that there are people out there that think like I do.
ReplyDeleteWhat I really like about myself is my height. (6'3" or so)
Would really like to see a pic of these!
ReplyDeleteI agree mindy, Keep up the good posting!
ReplyDeleteIt's important to accept yourself for who you are. Your born and die with the same body so you might as well get used to it. Besides, SOMEONE out there is going to think you're attractive, it's just a matter of finding out!
ReplyDeletetotally agree with Spartan094
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